Happy birthday to my wonderful husband!

Yesterday was my husbands birthday! He is the most amazing man. He works such long hours in our business and still has the time to be With the kids!

We spent the weekend at our shed, skiing and being with great family and friends! I am just hoping he knows how amazing he is even though no one was there to sing it to him!

I just hope that he was happy to be with just us and feels so loved and appreciated!

Love you babe!

Please dont "train" your baby!

To my boys...you are my life, not an inconvenience..I am your teacher not your trainer...I will love you no matter what ♥ xxx

I wrote that after reading about babies who are left to cry for hours because someone had told their mum that babies need to learn how to sleep and the only way you can do that is if you ignore their cries :( Baby trainers have a very harsh approach to how babies should sleep! Why can an adult be loved and cuddle to sleep yet a beautiful baby who cannot talk and only way of communicating is through crying is left to sob their little hearts out to sleep!

What ever happened to trusting ourselves? Why don't we trust that we can do a great job, why do people write books about sleep that tells us to go against every nerve in our body, why don't we believe that our babies wont be spoiled if we care and love for them how we feel we should! Why do we listen to people who are preying on sleep deprived parents with their quick fixing books which cause more harm than good!

They are only babies for a second and how we raise them and love for them impact them for the rest of their lives!

I really think every new parent should read the Science of Parenting or any of Pinky Mckays books!

LOVE is the most important thing <3

Well holidays are finsihed and we are back to normal routine as of tonight!
We had a wonderful 2 weeks together, spent time at the shed, braved the crowds at dreamworld and spent much needed time with family and friends!
My little monky has grown up so much over the past 2 weeks! His speech is amazing and he just loves his little fatty brother. My little buddah is getting so big he is 10 weeks this week and is overdue is yucky needles so they will have to be done :( But he is such a happy baby!

The new year has also come and we are looking forward to lots of great adventures. We plan to buy a new house, organise and re doecorate the business and spend more time together!
As the new year rolled in I have beeen feeling better about my Gender dissapointment issues. I am feeling happy and in love with my 2 little men!

So happy new year...may your year be filled wiht love, light, hope and happiness xxx